It doesn’t always make sense, but it’s true.  We are quick to run to God when our hearts get bumped, bruised, scraped up a bit.  But ironically, the really deep, painful things that we experience are much harder to run to Him.  Maybe it’s because we blame Him.  Maybe we want to pretend they are not there.  Either way, those are the things we cover with our own band-aids, so no one can see how deep they are.  Not even God.